Bigfoot to Reality

Just self realised and analysed these myths into what I feel is correct. 

Qualification to write this Relationship goals post:

An experiencer of 12 years of best friendships, 5 year of full on live in relationship, and 2.5 year of marriage ;)

Love at first sight???

If you get a feel with first sight, its purely attraction or lust, not love.

A person falling in love with someone in a single glance is beyond my imagination and successful only in commercial films.

Love is something that tends to grow for a particular person eventually. For that, one should see both good and bad side of that person. Still you want to be with that person, then its Love. Else ctrl+alt+delete.

He/She completes you???

I have seen many keeping weird expectations in relationships. A love or lover is not something that should complete your wishes. It is your purpose to achieve your dreams and any form of lover should only kept for mental aid and encouragement to chase it. Without self-love, a person can never truly love other person. You completes You.

Romance is the success strategy of a relationship???

Attraction and lust for your partner fade eventually over the years of aging. Then what keeps a relationship strong? compatibility is the sole key for that. I strongly feel having the ability to share and listen can increase the compatibility mode. Quoted somehwere before 'falling in love is a subtle process, a connection sparked by attraction, tested by compatibility and forged by memories.'